Double Dog Dare of the Week: Invite a Priest Over for Dinner

This week, I am daring you to do something very bold. I Double Dog Dare you to invite a priest over to your house for dinner.

Now, this is easy for me to say, since my own (biological) father was a priest (he left the priesthood before I was born…), and I ate dinner with him almost every night for 18 years, but maybe that doesn’t count.

Also, I worked at a Catholic summer camp for several years, and we were always eating with priests.

But, neither one of these examples is exactly the same thing as inviting a man of the cloth over to your real, grown-up house to eat an actual meal at your dinner table. Think “Leave it to Beaver” style.

But, why should you do this? Wouldn’t it be awkward? What if we run out of things to talk about? What if he thinks my house is messy? What if my dog jumps up on him?

Well, don’t worry about any of those things! Priests are regular people, just like you and me! The good that can come from inviting a priest over for dinner FAR outweighs any potential awkwardness that may or may not arise!

Here are 7 very good reasons to invite a priest over for dinner:

1. Deep Conversations – Priests often have profound insights on faith, life, and morality. If you enjoy meaningful discussions, a priest can offer a unique perspective.

2. Pastoral Support – If you or your family are going through a tough time, having a priest over can provide spiritual encouragement, guidance, or even just a listening ear.

3. Building Community – Priests are often busy and may not get many personal invitations. A home-cooked meal and good company can help strengthen bonds between clergy and parishioners.

4. Blessings & Prayers – A priest’s presence can be an opportunity for a house blessing or simply to share a special prayer with your family.

5. Sharing Hospitality – Many priests live alone or in rectories where meals might be more functional than enjoyable. Inviting one over allows them to relax and enjoy good food and fellowship.

6. Learning More About the Church – If you have questions about Catholic teachings, traditions, or theology, a casual dinner can be a great setting to ask.

7. Setting an Example – If you have children, inviting a priest over can help them see clergy as approachable and relatable, possibly inspiring future vocations

Well, there you have it! You have NO EXCUSES now! Pick up the phone and call the rectory! What are you waiting for? Among many other wonderful things, most priests LOVE food!